Your calendar isn’t full of work.
It’s clogged with tiny yeses you forgot you made.
Dinner you don’t care about.
Slack stand-up you never needed.
The “quick call” that always blooms into an hour.
I call these leaky promises.
They drain energy before the real game starts.
Grab a sheet:
List five recurring obligations.
Label each Required / Optional / Ego.
Cross out every Optional and Ego.
Feel the room you just bought back.
that’s why i built The 90-Day Discipline Blueprint (25% off) to help you stop drifting and start executing on command
Most people discover the cost of yes only after they’re broke on focus.
Here’s your refund tool:
The One-Line No
“Appreciate it, but I’m at capacity this week – circle back next time.”
No apology.
No novel.
Silence does the heavy lifting.
Say it twice and the invites shrink.
Say it ten times and people respect the perimeter.
tomorrow: The Boundary Operating System
scripts, rules, and a calendar filter that rejects clutter for you
if you want the full script bank and auto-filter, they’re waiting in Paid tomorrow
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