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Your calendar is lying to you.
Not because it’s wrong.
Because it’s honest.
It’s showing you the real problem:
you say yes like it’s harmless.
Meetings. Errands. “Quick calls.”
Favours. Projects. Catch-ups.
Random obligations you didn’t even choose.
Then you look up and call it “a full week.”
Busy isn’t progress.
Busy is what happens when you don’t filter.
Most people treat their calendar like a record of their life.
It’s not.
It’s a receipt.
It shows what you bought with your time.
And right now, your receipt is mostly junk.
Here’s the core shift:
If your calendar doesn’t protect your priorities, it protects everyone else’s.
That’s why you feel behind.
You’re not behind on work.
You’re behind on saying no.
Micro-story.
I used to block “deep work” first.
Then I’d accept one “quick thing.”
A 15-minute call.
A last-minute request.
A “can you just…”
By Wednesday, my deep work was living in scraps.
I was “busy” all day and still felt useless at night.
So I started using one filter.
Three questions.
No feelings.
Every commitment goes through it.
The Delete / Delegate / Defer Filter
Before you accept it - or before you keep it - ask:
Delete: If this disappeared, would anything actually break?
Delegate: Is there someone else who can do this 80% as well as me?
Defer: If it matters, what’s the exact future date I’m doing it - and what gets removed to make room?
That’s it.
Three questions that turn “busy” into clean.
Here’s how it looks in real life:
You have a Thursday packed with calls.
You’re also “trying” to train and finish a project.
Run the filter.
Delete: That optional check-in with no agenda? Gone.
If there’s no decision, it’s social. Not operational.Delegate: That admin task you keep dragging around? Hand it off.
If you can write instructions once, you can stop paying for it weekly.Defer: That “sometime” errand? Put it on Saturday at 10:00am.
And if Saturday is full, you don’t magically squeeze it in. You remove something else.
The power move isn’t adding a better habit.
It’s removing the quiet time thieves you keep tolerating.
Do this today (10 minutes):
Open next week.
Pick the 3 commitments you resent most.
Run the filter.
Delete one.
Delegate one.
Defer one to a real date - and delete the thing it’s replacing.
Your calendar will stop lying the moment you stop letting it hold everything.
And if you want the sequence that hardens this into a weekly standard (so you stop drifting back into yes-mode), grab The 90-Day Discipline Blueprint - use the templates today, follow the sequence for the next 7 days.
Save this.
Next time you feel “busy,” run the filter before you blame yourself.
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