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You don’t get what you want - you get what you are
Your identity is either your launchpad or your cage

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You can’t outwork a broken identity.
If deep down you still see yourself as undisciplined, inconsistent, or average - your results will match it.
Not because you're not trying hard enough.
Because your self-image is setting the ceiling.
The truth:
You will always act in alignment with who you believe you are
Goals without identity shifts turn into self-sabotage
If you don’t change your story, you’ll keep reliving the same results
I used to try and “fix” my habits with hacks.
But I still saw myself as someone who quit.
Every time things got hard, I’d fall right back into the old version of me.
Until I made the shift:
“I’m the kind of person who follows through - no matter what.”
Different mindset. Different actions. Way better outcomes.
You want new results?
Start by asking - who would I need to become to make this inevitable?
Then act like that person before you believe it.
You don’t need better habits. You need a stronger identity.
What old label are you ready to kill off today?
Cut the fluff. Upgrade who you are.
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