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Rules beat willpower
Make policies so your best choice happens by default

If it isn’t a policy, it’s optional
If it’s optional, your mood will win
Most people try to white knuckle their goals with motivation
By 3pm they’re negotiating with themselves and losing
The truth:
Decisions drain energy
Policies kill negotiation
Identity hardens around rules you actually keep
I stopped arguing with myself when I wrote personal policies and made them public
No meetings before 11
Phone lives in another room during deep work
Publish one proof of work daily
Gym on calendar like a paid appointment
Sugar only on Saturdays
Suddenly there was nothing to decide
Just a script to follow
Do this today:
Pick one domain health, money, craft
Write three policies that remove your most common negotiations
Examples
I don’t open inbox before my first power block
I train at 5pm on weekdays no swaps
I spend the first dollar of each paycheck on investmentsMake them visible lock screen note, desk card, calendar reminders
Add light stakes if you break a policy, pay a small fine or do a 10 minute penalty walk
Review weekly keep, tighten, or replace
Pro tips:
Phrase rules as I don’t not I can’t
Protect the first domino mornings decide momentum
Keep rules few and sharp so they survive bad days
You don’t need more discipline
You need fewer debates
What three policies will run your life for the next 14 days starting tonight
Cut the fluff. Write the rules.
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